1. Act Standoffish
Yes, so you know, a lot of women want what they can’t have. Just act standoffish, like you don’t even see her.
Acting like you don’t give a fuck is going to make her want you even more. Being emotionless, like nothing can move you, will make her think, “Well, with other guys, when I do this or don’t show them attention…”
The fact that it’s not going to work on you, and you still act like, “ I don’t even see you,” is going to drive her crazy.
You’ll just look like a bad boy, and because bad boys can be hard to pin down, it’s attractive to women.
2. Be Unavailable
You might just be sitting at home or have a hundred things to do, so you’re really unavailable.
That again is going to drive women crazy, especially those who get a lot of attention. They’ll wonder, “Wait, why isn’t he acting like the other guys?”
That’s going to [beep] up her mind, and she’s going to think, “Okay, well, I’ve got to make the effort.” In a way, you’re putting the ball in her court.
Yeah, I showed you a little bit, now I’m not showing you; I’m not really available, now you’ve got to reach out to me and try to get me out of the house. Flip the script.
Watch, as soon as a woman is putting in more effort than you, that’s when she won’t be able to handle the rejection and will want to be with you even more.
3. Be Overly Passionate
I don’t think this one is toxic, but sometimes it can be.
You guys can be overly passionate about anything – MMA, soccer, basketball, your family, and be unapologetic about it.
You’re like, “I don’t give a [beep]; I’m going to talk about what I’m passionate about.”
When people talk about what they’re passionate about, it’s like you have this fire, and others are drawn to you because it’s attractive.
Women will take it as, “Well, if he's that passionate about this, how much will he be passionate about me?” They’re going to think that will translate to your relationship with her if you guys get into one.
4. Be Difficult
Yes, don’t like it if you’re too easy. Be difficult because they’re used to being so easy-going.
I’m telling you, easy-going is for me; I want easy-going, but for a lot of women, someone who’s difficult is going to trigger her mind and think, “Okay, I need to get him,” instead of just being like, “Okay, you, you’re difficult.” No, they’re going to come even more for you.
Also, it makes wonder, “Wait, did I do something wrong? Was I supposed to do it in a different way?”
Like this, you’re keeping her on her toes at all times.
5. Be Aggressive
Not aggressive in a bad way but aggressive towards your life, your goals, your passion, your money, your family, your happiness, and also in the bedroom.
In the bedroom, we want you to be a little aggressive. You need to read the room, like I say all the time, because some girls aren’t into being too rough, but being aggressive is usually a good choice because it shows masculinity, which is what women are looking for.
If you’re in the bedroom asking, “What do you want to do? Do you like this position?” I’m going to be like, “What th are you talking about?
Just do it!” So, there’s a certain level of being aggressive; don’t go overboard.
6. Be Unapologetically Authentic
That’s a big one for the bad boy vibe. If you want to be a bad boy, this is the one you need to know.
Bad boys tend to be very genuine; they say whatever they want, whatever they’re thinking, just because they don’t care. They’re like, “That’s who I am, I speak my mind,” and they do whatever they want, regardless of what others think.
Even if it’s not the popular choice, if that’s how you feel, you’re like, “Hey, I’m doing that because that’s what I want to do.” Women find this very attractive because it shows you’re not a follower but someone who goes with their gut.
By doing that, you remain centered and focused, regardless of societal expectations.
Trust me, that’s a refreshing quality showing strength and status. It takes courage to be yourself without considering everyone’s opinion.
7. Have Strong Opinions
This might be a little toxic if overdone, but having a strong opinion, being strong-minded, and very assertive isn’t bad.
However, some overdo it, and some women crave that [beep]. If you’re strong-minded and nobody can tell you anything, some women find that really attractive.
I personally don’t like it when it’s too much, like when you can’t be told anything because you “know everything.” But hey, some women are like, “Oh, everything my man knows everything.” So go for it.
8. Be Independent
Yes, you’re not needy, not clingy. That really works when dealing with a certain type of woman because they’ll feel like, again, you’re not that available.
It’ll have her wondering, “Does he really like me? Why are we not seeing each other so often?” Because as a woman, we don’t want you to need us; we want you to want us. If I feel like you’re too much on me, it’s not a good look.
That’s why you need to ensure you have your own life, your own hobbies, your own passions.
Not saying you can’t share hobbies together, but you need to have your own woman going on for yourself.
Follow this blog if you want appreciate me.
0 Comments