Marriages in India have always been something very traditional and conventional, but in this we disguise so many things that are cleary unjustified as “norms”.
Being an Astrologer, everyday I get to talk to Victims and Survivors of these marriages which are mostly arranged.
Some of my female clients have told me horrible stories about how their MILs just don't let their sons spend a single second of quality time with them , or how their parents had taken loan to pay dowry to get them married and now the in-laws are asking for more ! And the most common thing is in these so called modern families who “allow” their DILs to work but don't let them spend a single penny of their hard earned money as they wish .
There are proper alignments in a girl's chart/kundali that denotes she'll have toxic MIL , e.g. Moon in 7th house.
For my male clients I have seen wives asking them to totally cut their parents off , some wives who don't even work or do household chores but demand a big chunk off their husband’s salary, Most common thing I have seen is good guys being rejected because of not having a government job !
Also, alignments of having a toxic wife in a man's chart /Kundali can be badly placed Venus or Sun in 7th house .
Everything in a marriage can be sorted out , if both parties are willing to be understanding and put in equal efforts. Many of my clients have saved their marriages by working on them .
Our responsibility is to become the right person instead of expecting our spouse to be the right person. We should think upon the expectations we are forming from our marriage/partner, and preach for what's ethical and not what's been happening in arranged marriages from centuries.
नमः पार्वतीपत्ये हर हर महादेव।
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