Many of the lessons we learnt like “tit for tat", “honesty is the best policy" etc are on our mouth, because we memorized them like a song being a kid.
One such lesson is “People come for purpose.”
This lesson didn't come in any lesson or chapter of our books, but as we grow up, we realize that if you are good at something, people will come to you in a click and if not, you are gonna stay alone.
Yes! Exceptions are there but most of the world, and its ethics say the opposite.
The biggest lesson I have learnt is that you need to be extremely good in a skill to attract people.
Good looks.
High IQ
Any paid skill.
And much more.
You just need to have a skill and people would come to you. For the purpose of learning it.
And the additional lesson which comes with it is, never trust those people.
If you are a chill person, you won't give a damn if the person stays or leaves.
But if you are a sensitive person, you will first become vulnerable, waste your tears when the person leaves your life, or even beg sometimes to get them back anyway.
And when the person still leaves, you become a rock.
Not trusting anyone again.
What I have learnt from life is,
People do not come when they are done with their purpose;
They leave when they are done breaking you!
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