What are some mind-blowing psychological facts about males?
Specialists discover that men hold more uplifting outlooks towards their female ex-accomplices than ladies do towards their male ex-accomplices
Examination shows men actually lean toward female accomplices who are less expertly yearning than they are. Guys esteem a potential accomplice's actual appeal more than females do [2].
Examination has discovered that men have more noteworthy degrees of self-sympathy (option in contrast to confidence) than ladies
The exploration discovered that men are less inclined to look for help than ladies. Help-chasing rates are even lower for men who adjust to conventional manly standards. This current men's conduct has seriously influenced their physical and emotional well-being.
Men like red tone and it's demonstrated by research that they can't overlook a lady donning red – it's so eye-catching
As a long time student of psychology and dealing with couples counselling in the past, here is what I found.
Young men need to be responsible, learn to be strong, supportive and masculine, protecting the family and giving the wife security. In order for that to take place in modern society, the wife needs to not “rule the roost”. It is most destructive to men to take all responsibility from them and not allow them to make mistakes. They will never grow to be strong if they are manipulated into complete male creative frustration.
Typical today:
The woman says; “But his ideas are so stupid and dangerous to our lifestyle”. “If I let him pursue his ideas we will starve.”
Of course, today that is just her insecurity “ruling the roost”. As she continues with this program of saving him from his stupid ideas, she will destroy him and turn him into a self destructive drunk or one that completely avoids her, and so we have 50% divorce rate, and that is with repeat divorces, so it is really about 80%. How many people in their old age have been married to one person today?
The Man needs to be let loose to make mistakes and to suffer for them and learn to be a man. Make decisions on his work and his creative force. Otherwise the wife will wake up one day and say; “What happened to this guy I though was so strong and good?”
She says; “who is this weak guy in bed with me?”
And “why is he so angry all the time.”
Men seem to be born to learn to be responsible, strong, and self assured as they mature. If they can’t be allowed to make mistakes they never will learn. He will always be a “momma’s boy” and never be the man that most women really want if this contraction of the male creative forces is restricted by emotional coercion; out of her “knowing better” and such silliness by the wife.
Every really successful man, one that people can look up to for his achievements has a supportive wife who lets him be a man. And if they are both professionals she never even looks like she is trying to compete with him. Rather she is supporting his growth as a man. And she will be greatly rewarded with a strong loving loyal husband.
That is if you really want a successful marriage. If the woman takes the lead, the man becomes weak. And many men are happy to never have responsibility. They will just be “momma’s boy”.
Men as a statistical group tend to be much lower in Trait-Agreeableness than women as a group. This relates to proclivity for men as a group to test genetic ideas to provide the broadest possible set of evolutionary traits for women to pick from. Women already have a time-tested evolutionary niche and the need to experiment with it not the same. This Trait also maps into why the male prison population is disproportionately larger; and also why women as a statistical group are more likely to swayed by peer pressure and hard marketing sells.
It also helps explain why if you take a random man and woman from any population and select for a trait like physical strength and guess that the random male will be stronger you will be right 60% of the time but wrong 40% of the time. But the 10 strongest people in any population will always be men. The distribution curve for men tends to be flatter and broader than for women on a variety of traits — as more variablility in the men is an evolutionary asset. But one that results in twice as many male genes ending up on the genetic scrap-heap each generation than female genes. This also goes for intelligence, resulting in the pithy observation that there tend to be more male nobels but also dumbbells than women. (More variablity means more representation on the tails of the distribution curve).
Men as a statistical group tend to be much lower in Trait-Neuroticism than women as a group. This is sensitivity to negative emotions of both self and others. It is an essential part of the Maternal Instinct (along with higher Trait-Agreeableness), evoloved to help deal with the unique evolutionary challenge of the most prolonged period of infant dependency in the animal world. But the cost of this is higher prevalence of anxiety disorders in women as a group than men.
Men as a group tend to compartmentalize a lot easier than women. It was necessary for the reality of them having to be away from family so frequently for activities like hunting and war — and the historical need for them to make spur-of-the-moment life-or-death decisions out away from the protection of society’s “Habitable Order”. It leads to the often humorous observation that women’s minds tend to be like a ball of yarn where everything is attached to everything else: whereas men’s minds tend to be like a chest of drawers where one can put something important in a drawer and then close it up to go exist in another drawer for the sake of getting a necessary task done. It helps explain why even today with equal opportunities and high pay, there tends to be so few women lining up to do society’s most difficult, disgusting, dire and distant jobs “everything connected to everything else” would not be an asset.
Oh, and men have a “nothing drawer” too that tends to drive women crazy! “What are you doing??” — “Nothing”. “What are you thinking about this??” — “Nothing!”.
And it’s also worth noting that Feminism’s insistence that women as a group can do these jobs as competently as men as a group . . . has resulted in a rise in mental disorders and self-reported lower “happiness levels” in women at a societal level.
Real women want a real men. And this doesn’t mean he looks “macho” like the bad guys in the movies. It is his creative force in action that makes him a man. Stifle that and you can see the results in the bars and in broken marriages. And looking for a woman they think will not do this to them anymore.
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Men have a harder time talking to women who are physically more attractive.
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Men can easily perform analytical processes while driving and can drive fast safely.
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Men spend almost a year of their lives staring at women according to a survey
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Men are more likely to underestimate a women’s level of interest.
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Men are more likely to be more emotionally affected by break-ups than women are.
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Men say approx. 12,500 words a per day, whereas women say 22,000.
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Men are likely to make impulsive decisions than women are.
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Boys tend to lower their voice when talking to their crush.
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Boys lead on achievement tests while, girls do better on classroom grades.
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