What is single most common cause of Depression? Is it true that depression tells lies to you?

True depression doesn’t lie to you. It comes, makes you strongly suffer up to think about suicide. Those who are strong enough to use natural remedies are not severely ill. You only suffer and wait for the medications to take effect. When this happen, you won.

7 big lies to make you feel unworthy, weirdo & unlovable.

The first lie depression told you, that you’re not really depressed. So, you don’t need any treatment. You just need to be work hard & tough up instead of taking treatment.
The second lie depression told you, it’s just in your head. It says all lies in your voice and make you confuse, so you cannot make difference between lie & truth.
The third lie depression told you, you’re not even good enough to have depression.
The fourth lie depression told you, you’re not worthy of anyone love & care. You’re are born to suffer and people will hate you.
The fifth lie depression told you, you must do some horrible thing, so you deserve to be treated badly. You’re not even worthy of committing suicide, you deserve to be live & suffer forever. You’re hopeless cause.
The sixth lie depression told you, no one else feet like this and you’re the only weirdo in this world. You can only protect yourself by isolation. Never discuss your condition with others because, if you do people will make fun of you.
The seventh lie depression told you, you’re perfectly fine & you don’t need any medication and if you do, it will worse your condition.

I've been really down this year and can relate to a lot of these feelings at times but there’s also someone that gives me hope and everything I need in another even if was just us out on some island.

What I get out of this relationship is so innate and easy. That’s what I love about it. One of the many, many wonderful things …. I wish we could have spoken about feelings like this long ago but it didn’t really or completely happen but we both knew it. Anyway, we are where we are and I still need this person in my life and I hope she has some sort of feelings for me still. I would never do anything knowingly to going cause this love of mine any grief or sadness and I would do anything I could for her as long as I understood it and as long as I also able to move on this road without setbacks. The faster the better. I’m not perfect and I don’t expect to be looked at that way but she is to me. I wouldn’t say that to stress her either, I don’t want her to stress. That's something I kind of picked up on her long ago and I was able to help her in those regards. She’s easy going but she cares a lot about people, animals and just anything and everything and may sometimes feel like there’s too much to handle because she works make things easier for everybody.

I told her once when I was describing some similarities I said that I don’t fight and you don’t like to. When I said this that’s because just how I am because I work to keep out of arguments or any trouble but she takes on a lot of responsibilities for honorable reasons and can kind of find herself in some arguments, just a little bit more than I.

Anyway, say her and I ever got into an argument or saw things differently, my main goal is getting back to how we were work as a team. Regardless of whatever this may entail, she truly is the most amazing person I have ever met. We have had several years go by without seeing or talking with each other just because of our individual circumstances but I have always had her in my mind. I will even during these times when making a purchase on items think of her when making a decision and cannot decide or if I think we would both like this, I then will go that. It’s not that I’m even trying to think what she decision she would make it just comes to mind.

So, I really do not worry about things getting in between us because we can work through that. I don’t ever want to see her in any sort of turmoil or sadness or anything. That makes me hurt for her. I also once told her when we hadn't spoken that I’ll tell her anything and I meant that. I feel like I am a good person but she can so much more just by standing with me and that’s what I want to do for her. She brings me all the confidence in the world, I don’t care what it is but she’s got my back or is just there because she believes and / or cares about me then I can do anything for us. She inspires me, she could could be all sorts of mean to me and or if we ever got into it which I don’t see happening, we’ll get over it.

All drugs have to include all side effects reported, and they don't have to be proven related to the drug taken. The side effect you're talking about, suicidal thoughts, is most commonly reported among teenagers taking antidepressants. Also, suicidal thoughts alone are most often reported among teenagers as an age group, totally unrelated to antidepressants. Do your research. I'm glad you found out that for you it was a problem of hormones. For the vast majority, it is not that easily solved. I don't know if I'm depressed or not. I haven't seen a specialist But this is exactly how I feel almost everyday. I don't remember when I started feeling like this but I know it's been a really long while. I'm not suicidal because I feel like I deserve to live and suffer. Sometimes I wanted to get help. I'd try calling but do not know where to start so I just drop the phone and cry. Sometimes I feel like I'm okay, I'm still okay and I don't need help.

Suppose you are holding a glass of water. You do not know the actual mass of it. You asked people around you & fortunately, they answered like 300g, 400g, etc.

But it is not the case that the glass is heavy or light, in fact, the mass does not even matter. Actually what matters is Time. How long you are holding the glass that matters a lot. If you are holding the glass for 5min then it's okay but if it is 20 min, your hand will start paining and suppose if it is 1 day or 2 days, or even a month. Your hand might be paralyzed.

Similarly, if you think you did any mistake and later on you are regretting then Stop it right now.

As if you continuously be thinking the same for a period of time just like holding the glass for long then the mistake will act to expand with time and the pain will start to increase inside your mind. And though your mistake might be very small, your mind will enlarge it subconsciously and for that, you will be feeling something, and that is Depression. You might not be feeling to work towards your goal or even there will be a lack of internal motivation. Talk to people you trust, your parents, and mainly self-talk is very necessary. Ask yourself, isn’t there any person who also did the same and currently working with excellence.

Friend, whatever the situation is, sometimes when you do not satisfy with your achievement, the memories with the people who were your companion in the journey seem like mistakes and it is completely alright and a simple tendency of a human being but what you learned that matters a lot so, learn from mistakes and don’t repeat the same, remember this Country needs you; you are the future of this world. There is a high requirement of people like you in every sector whatever the situation of automation is.

Lastly, be optimistic. Don’t take any extreme steps such as suicide in such conditions as Suicide is not an option; rather it’s closing all other options. If you will be alive, you are capable enough to do much more than what you lost.

PS: Keep checking to your loved ones. Everyone needs someone. Depression is real please don't ignore it. If you have more than you need, simply share it with those who need it the most.

Get your hormones checked, my drs kept telling me I was depressed and anxious and need meds the rest of my life. All I need was testosterone since I was low on it.

The drugs that they give you can cause serious health problem. To this day my brain is still healing from a low dose onopin use for 1 and a half years.

Be very careful what in what your dr. says is wrong with you.

All antidepressants have black box warning on them that th they can cause suicidal thoughts in people that have never thought of suicide.

All those things I ready above are very vague and anyone can feel those things at different times of our lives.

Be very careful what drugs you put in your body.

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