The woman respects mature men and maturity is reflected through the following traits:
- Understanding: The feminine and tender nature of a woman can flow freely when she is around supportive men, whether in the form of father, brother, husband or boyfriend. The woman is childlike by nature but circumstances make her exterior a bit hard. The woman respects the man who nurtures her inner child and only a mature man can understand this subtle psyche of woman. A mature man does not control the woman, he admires her playful nature ‘coz this is a hallmark of femininity. He lets her fly ‘coz he knows that she will come back to the nest no matter how high she flies. That’s the essence of a woman.
2. Caring: When a man cares a bit for a woman, he has insured a lifetime of love and care for himself. Women are governed by emotions, she thinks by heart not brain, but you guys don’t know the secret. She wears a facade of being overly strong, because you don’t reciprocate back to her love.
3. Protective: It is a hostile world and the woman is vulnerable, no matter what age she is (I know about India). People stare at her, and she detests it. A protective man is a like a blanket of warmth around her, a firewall she does not want to override. Only an independent man can be truly protective, one who is truly independent in his thinking and living. Respecting others’ is important but they should not influence you or manipulate you. Your relationship with your girl should come out of your independent thinking, not decided by your Mom’s opinions’ or friends’ bets. She is your treasure, keep it safe.
4. Listening: Sorry guys this one may be an off but girls talk a lot, they are chatter-boxes once they trust you. They want to confide in you every little thing that happened in the office or that they are passionate about. Listening to her with rapt attention will make her respect you. Your cellphones are at risk if you use them while she is describing her day to you. But if it gets too much ask her politely to stay quiet and she will follow you like a kitten. Talking to her and spending quality time with her tells her that you are available to her emotionally.
5. Responsibility: Share the responsibilities and you have a big room in her heart. I have always seen my dad bringing the kitchen stuff and grocery while my mom cooks food. Else they both go together and get the stuff. In a household, it is about ‘WE’ and not ‘ME’. I have also seen dad assisting my Mom in kitchen, though we force him out :)
6. Stillness: Masculinity does not mean only toughness, it also means serenity and immense love and compassion. If you are still and peaceful, you will earn loads of respect from women. (I mean mental stillness, don’t go by appearance of Gautam Buddha though I respect that too).
The woman is like a river, running restlessly to merge into the ocean. She wants to become the ocean. Be the ocean she wants to be one with.
(Devprayag confluence-Bhagirathi and the Alaknanda join to form GANGA!!)
And she won’t only respect you, she will do much more.
In a nutshell, the woman respects the genuine man, the gentleman. A gentleman is the alpha man. So let's make it “Men will be gentlemen” instead of “Men will be men”…..
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